Monday, May 28, 2007

Decoration Day (Memorial Day)


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ORDER TO OBSERVE DECORATION DAY, 1868

Submitted by Judy Tate

Jan 5, 2000




General Order
No. 11
Headquarters, Grand Army of the Republic
Washington, D.C., May 5, 1868

I. The 30th day of May, 1868, is designated for the purpose of strewing
with flowers or otherwise decorating the graves of comrades who died in
defense of their country during the late rebellion, and whose bodies now
lie in almost every city, village, and hamlet churchyard in the land. In
this observance no form or ceremony is prescribed, but posts and
comrades will in their own way arrange such fitting services and
testimonials of respect as circumstances may permit.

We are organized, comrades, as our regulations tell us, for the purpose,
among other things, "of preserving and strengthening those kind and
fraternal feelings which have bound together the soldiers, sailors, and
marines who united to suppress the late rebellion." What can aid more to
assure this result than by cherishing tenderly the memory of our heroic
dead, who made their breasts a barricade between our country and its
foe?

Their soldier lives were the reveille of freedom to a race in chains,
and their death a tattoo of rebellious tyranny in arms. We should guard
their graves with sacred vigilance. All that the consecrated wealth and
taste of the Nation can add to their adornment and security is but a
fitting tribute to the memory of her slain defenders. Let no wanton foot
tread rudely on such hallowed grounds. Let pleasant paths invite the
coming and going of reverent visitors and found mourners. Let no
vandalism of avarice or neglect, no ravages of time, testify to the
present or to the coming generations that we have forgotten, as a
people, the cost of free and undivided republic.

If other eyes grow dull and other hands slack, and other hearts cold in
the solemn trust, ours shall keep it well as long as the light and
warmth of life remain in us.

Let us, then, at the time appointed, gather around their sacred remains
and garland the passionless mounds above them with choicest flowers of
springtime; let us raise above them the dear old flag they saved from
dishonor; let us in this solemn presence renew our pledges to aid and
assist those whom they have left among us as sacred charges upon the
Nation's gratitude,__the soldier's and sailor's widow and orphan.

II. It is the purpose of the Commander-in-Chief to inaugurate this
observance with the hope it will be kept up from year to year, while a
survivor of the war remains to honor the memory of his departed
comrades. He earnestly desires the public press to call attention to this
Order, and lendits friendly aid in bringing it to the notice of comrades
in all parts of the country in time for simultaneous compliance
therewith.

III. Department commanders will use every effort to make this order
effective.

By command of:
John A. Logan,
Commander-in-Chief
N. P. Chipman,
Adjutant-General

Lyrics for TAPS while there, read touching story of origination of TAPS

Sunday, May 27, 2007

The Origins of TAPS, circa 1862



TAPS, circa 1862



It all began in 1862 during the Civil War, when Union Army Captain Robert Ellicombe was with his men near Harrison's Landing in Virginia. The Confederate Army was on the other side of the narrow strip of land. During the night, Captain Ellicombe heard the moan of a soldier who lay mortally wounded on the field. Not knowing if it was a Union or Confederate soldier, the captain decided to risk his life and bring the stricken man back for medical attention. Crawling on his stomach through the gunfire, the captain reached the stricken soldier and began pulling him toward his encampment. When the captain finally reached his own lines, he discovered it was actually a Confederate soldier, but the soldier was dead. The captain lit a lantern. Suddenly he caught his breath and went numb with shock. In the dim light, he saw the face of the soldier. It was his own son. The boy has been studying music in the South when the war broke out. Without telling his father, he enlisted in the Confederate Army. The following morning, heartbroken, the father asked permission of his superiors to give his son a full military burial despite his enemy status. His request was partially granted. The captain had asked if he could have a group of Army band members play a funeral dirge of the son at the funeral. That request was turned down since the soldier was a Confederate. Out of respect for the father, they did say they could give him only one musician. The captain chose a bugler. He asked the bugler to play a series of musical notes he found on a piece of paper in the pocket of the dead youth's uniform. This wish was granted. This music was the haunting melody we now know as "Taps" used at military funerals.

Information provided by Lt Colonel Lewis Kirkpatrick, (Ret) Reserve Officers Association

Listen to TAPS while you read the lyrics.

LYRICS

Day is done,
gone the sun,
from the lakes
from the hills
from the sky,
all is well,
safely, rest,
God is near.

Fading light,
Dims the sight,
And a star gems the sky
Gleaming bright,
From afar,
Drawing, near,
Falls the night.

Thanks and praise,
For our days,
Neath the sun
Neath the stars
Neath the sky,
As we go,
This, we, know,
God is near.

Monday, May 14, 2007

Portrait Of An Acheiver!

Most give up RIGHT before their success comes…..

"Portrait Of An Achiever"

Failed in Business - Bankruptcy, 1831
Defeated For Legislature, 1832
Failed in Business - Bankruptcy, 1834
Sweetheart - Fiancé Dies, 1835
Nervous Breakdown, 1836
Defeated in Election, 1838
Defeated For U.S. Congress. 1846
Defeated Again For U.S. Congress, 1848
Defeated For U.S. Senate, 1855
Defeated For U.S. Vice President, 1856
Defeated Again For U.S. Senate, 1858

ABRAHAM LINCOLN
ELECTED PRESIDENT OF THE U.S.A., 1860

"You cannot fail . . . unless you quit!

Friday, May 11, 2007

House Response to 1082

Hi! Please take action on this vitally important issue. It's important to me and I know it will be to you, too! The US Senate passed the dangerous and highly corrupt S. 1082 which puts the FDA in the drug company business instead of watchdogging it. The result? More preventable deaths and more damaging drug corruption.
Thanks for your activism.


Take action now at http://www.democracyinaction.org/dia/organizations/healthfreedomusa/campaign.jsp?campaign_KEY=11344&t=

Saturday, May 5, 2007

HAPPY MOTHERS DAY!!!

Prettiest Moms on my Friends list!

Once you have been hit, you have to hit 15 pretty Moms.

If you get hit again, You will know you are REALLY pretty!

So hit 15 pretty moms on your friends list to let them know

they are pretty!



Before I was a Mom
I never tripped over toys or forgot words to a lullaby.
I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.

Before I was a Mom-I had never been:
Puked on.
Pooped on.
Chewed on.
Peed on.
I had complete control of my mind and my thoughts.
I slept all night.

Before I was a Mom
I never held down a screaming child so doctors could do tests.
Or give shots.
I never looked into teary eyes and cried.
I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.

Before I was a Mom
I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put them down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I
couldn't stop the hurt.
I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much.
I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.

Before I was a Mom
I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby.
I didn't know that bond between a mother and her child.
I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so
important and happy.

Before I was a Mom
I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.
I had never known the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache, the wonderment or the satisfaction of being a Mom.

I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much, before I was a Mom.
So send this to someone who you think is a pretty Mom.
I just did!

Make it a great DAY!!

Monday, April 30, 2007

Dont pump gas May 15th! GAS OUT!!

NO GAS...On May 15th 2007
>
> Don't pump gas on MAY 15th
>
> In April 1997, there was a "gas out" conducted nationwide in protest
>of gas prices. Gasoline prices dropped 30 cents a gallon overnight.
>
> On May 15th 2007, all internet users are to not go to a gas station in
>protest of high gas prices. Gas is now over $3.00 a gallon in most places.
>
> There are 73,000,000+ American members currently on the internet
>network, and the average car takes about 30 to 50 dollars to fill up.
>
> If all users did not go to the pump on the 15th, it would take
>$2,292,000,000.00 (that's almost 3 BILLION) out of the oil companies
>pockets for just one day, so please do not go to the gas station on May
>15th and lets try to put a dent in the Middle Eastern oil industry for at
>least one day.
>
> If you agree (which I cant see why you wouldn't) resend this to all
>your contact list. With it saying, ''Don't pump gas on May 15th"

Thursday, April 26, 2007

Go GREEN for Spring Clean!

Make it a green sweep this spring
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It's a whole new world of non-toxic clean for this gone-eco reporter

By Barbara Mahany
Tribune staff reporter

April 15, 2007

Excuse me while I finish something here -- gurgle, slurp, kerplunk. That noise in the background? The sound of me dumping out my old toxic cleaning caddy.

I am here to tell you, I am born again. At least at the well-scrubbed altar of cleaning green, I am.

Now waking up to parsley scent in my salle de bain. Rubbing windows shiny with eau de vinegar, or, perhaps, purified H2O laced with essential lavender oil. Rinsing toilet bowl, should you care to peek in there, with coconut-derived surfactant in natural cedar scent.

But not a toxin do I own.

Not anymore anyways, and not anywhere in the vicinity of my cleaning shelf. I am, I swear on a stack of holy books, deeply steeped in keeping my clean green.

I once was in the dark, but now I've seen the streak-free, smudge-proof, dust-swiped light.

I once had wronged, but now I'm free. Free of 2-butoxyethanol, free of n-Alkyl dimethyl benzyl ammonium chloride, free of hydrocarbon propellant, for crying out loud.

There's a maxim in the world of cleaning green, and it is this: If you can't pronounce what's in it, toss it out.

So toss I did.

At first, this was just another story, this cleaning green. And I'll be honest, not long after I started, my head was spinning. You quickly come to find out that in the world of so-called eco-cleaning, there's a whole slew of terms that frankly are more than somewhat slippery. What really defines green? Or natural?

Is it biodegradable? Plant-based? Sustainable? Organic?

Turns out, there's no one keeping watch on how these words are being used. Unlike organic food, which now comes under the certification of the U.S. Department of Agriculture, there are no federal or industry standards for household cleaning products claiming to be "green." Rather than muddy the waters, and slinging dirt on companies who contend they're doing the right thing, I will simply fill you in on the cleaners I now count on, to get the job done, get it done sparklingly, and to preserve the planet while doing so. (We'll save what to do about laundry another day, another story.)


What you were afraid to ask

Before we turn to my reborn cleaning ways, I need to let you in on a few spine-chilling facts I turned up in talking to chemists and environmental engineers, some of whom are independent academic researchers, others in-house eco-gurus at respected green-cleaner firms.

The bottom line, before we get into details, is that you have every reason to be worried about the toxins you bring into your home, via your cleaning caddy.

William Nazaroff, professor of environmental engineering at the University of California, Berkeley, led a four-year, $400,000 study looking at what he calls "the pollution sources right under our nose."

Considered the first, most comprehensive study to measure emissions and primary and secondary toxic compounds under typical indoor-use conditions, the Berkeley analysis, published just last May, found two serious causes for concern.

Looking at 17 cleaning products and four air fresheners, the researchers found that, under normal conditions, six of the cleaning products emitted a toxic compound, ethyl-based glycols, at levels up to three times higher than what the U.S. Environmental Protection Agency would allow for outdoor pollution standards. Glycol ethers, widely used as solvents, are considered by the EPA to be "hazardous air pollutants."

And 12 of the tested cleaning products contain a class of chemicals known as terpenes -- again often used as solvents, but more frequently as the citrus-based scent in so many cleaning products -- that rapidly reacts with ozone, producing harmful byproducts such as formaldehyde and small-particle pollutants that no lungs need inhale. Nazaroff points out that ozone can seep into buildings through ventilation, or even just an open window.

The worst scenario, explained Nazaroff in a recent telephone interview, is when you clean a large surface in a small, say, bathroom, and spend up to 15 minutes scrubbing, say, scale off the shower walls. It is particularly troublesome for anyone who cleans four houses a day, five days a week, 50 weeks a year, he adds. That means that if you employ a cleaning service, the ones who scour your shower might be inhaling truly hazardous fumes, at three times the amount that would be allowed to spew from a factory.

The damage wrought by the cans and bottles that hide in the underbelly of your kitchen sink might be anything from nausea to kidney, liver or blood dysfunction to pediatric cancer to diminished sperm count, said Nazaroff, who is not an epidemiologist but thoroughly reviewed published studies linking toxic compounds to a host of health concerns.

A 15-year study in Oregon, presented at a recent National Center for Health Statistics conference, looked at death rates from cancer in women who worked in the home versus women who left their homes for work each day. Researchers found a 54 percent higher death rate from cancer in the women who stayed home; the study strongly suggested household cleaning toxins as key culprits.

Anecdotally, it seems that every week I hear news of someone else with cancer -- often someones who don't smoke, and try to live a healthy life. I find myself scratching my head, wondering what unknown substance is wreaking all this hell. And, as if I needed further motivation to clean up my cleaning act, I already have one son with asthma and I fear for the other.


But how does green clean?

I'm telling you I dove into my spring cleaning with a vengeance. The burning selfish question, the one most everybody asks: What's the point of cleaning green if my house no longer sparkles?

I am here to tell you, my house is sparkling. To tell the truth, the window panes are sighing, so worn out from all the rubbing.

I spent weeks collecting cleaners claiming to be green. I checked what's called Material Safety Data Sheets -- MSDS, for short -- on most of the products, which is really the only way to know what's in the stuff you spray, you squirt, you pour.

I followed the green-clean maxim: If my tongue got twisted trying to read ingredients, I tossed.

And, yes, I started out as kitchen chemist. Gathered vinegar and lemons, baking soda, Borax and pitchers full of water. I stood there with my funnel and my measuring cups. I poured, I spilled, I read the teeny half-cup marker lines. And then, not long after, I surrendered.

You might get your kicks stirring your own stuff. Dropping essential oil to make it smell all yummy. Indeed, if you care to mix it up, there are many Web sites rife with recipes. One you might check out is www.biggreenpurse. com (see a few of their recipes in an accompanying story).

But I'm a low-grade cleaner, I suppose. I've been seduced and I've succumbed. I go for nifty premixed bottles by companies I truly think I can trust.

One fascinating wrinkle in all this cleaning whirl, is that the good folks at Whole Foods seem to be among the toughest in setting green-clean standards. If it's on their shelf, you can safely assume they've done the dirty work already and consider it mighty green.

"That's what our cleaning aisle is all about," says Will Betts, Whole Foods' Midwest regional grocery coordinator. "You don't need to do the legwork to do your housecleaning. Our standards are certainly stricter than the standards at all the conventional markets."

Biodegradability, he says, is standard No. 1.

But even that, counters environmental engineer Nazaroff, is a claim with not much meaning. "It tells me that it won't be there for 100 years. It's not going to be bio-accumulating in fields in the Arctic, but it really doesn't tell us anything."

What's needed in this country, he says, is a complete U-turn in how we look at how we clean. "The rule in the U.S. is that chemicals are innocent until proven guilty. Europeans have flipped that. The idea there is that before [a chemical] can be introduced, it has to be demonstrated safe."

Not one to wait, I read my labels, called around with laundry lists of questions, cleaned like crazy and, at last, restocked my caddy.


The price of green

Oh, one other thing, one thing you really might be wondering: cost. What's the wallop on your wallet? Depending where you shop, you might spend anywhere from 10 percent to 50 percent more on cleaning green, per bottle. But here's my take: On the one hand, toxins that lead to God only knows what dangers; on the other hand, a few bucks.

I'm no clean freak, and I'm no slouch. I'd say I'd buy two, maybe three, bottles of all-purpose cleaner per year, the way it lasts. So, for the price of some grande triple mocha something, I can save the Earth and make my counter sparkle. A deal I am proud to call my own.

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My personal comments:
I totally agree with this author or else I wouldn't give her the space on my blog. One thing I don't agree with is the price of the products. I happen to know of a great company that manufactures green and clean products for your home and family. If you would like more info please send me an e-mail or go to my website and fill out the get more info. The company has over 400 products that you use on a regular basis and it won't break the bank. Actually, price comparisons show that they are more cost effective than the leading brands and as or more effective than those purchased in your local health store.
Thanks for reading!

Toddler Property Laws!

toddler

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

The birth order of children

Your Clothes:
1st baby:
You begin wearing maternity clothes as soon as yo! ur OB/GYN confirms your pregnancy.
2nd baby:
You wear your regular clothes for as long as possible.
3rd baby:
Your maternity clothes ARE your regular clothes. ______________________________________________________
Preparing for the Birth:

1st baby:
You practice your breathing religiously.
2nd baby:
You don't bother because you remember that last time, breathing didn't do a thing.
3rd baby:
You ask for an epidural in your eighth month.
______________________________________________________
The Layette:

1st baby:
You pre-wash newborn's clothes, color-coordinate them, and fold them neatly in the baby's little bureau.
2nd baby:
You check to make sure that the clothes are clean and discard only the ones with the darkest stains.
3rd baby:
Boys can wear pink, can't they?
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Worries:

1st baby:
At the first sign of distress-a whimper,
a frown-you pick up the baby.

2nd baby:
You pick the baby up when her wails
threaten to wake your firstborn.

3rd baby:
You teach your three-year-old how
to rewind the mechanical swing.
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Pacifier:

1st baby:
If the pacifier falls on the floor,
you put it away until you can go home and wash and boil it.

2nd baby:
When the pacifier falls on the floor,
yo u squirt it off with some juice from the baby's bottle.

3rd baby:
You wipe it off on your shirt and pop it back in.
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Diapering:

1st baby:
You change your baby's diapers every hour,
whether they need it or not.

2nd baby:
You change their diaper every two to three hours, if needed.
3rd baby:
You try to change their diaper before others start to complain about the smell or you see it sagging to their knees.
______________________________________________________
Activities:

1st baby:
You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics,
Baby S wing, and Baby Story Hour.

2nd baby:
You take your infant to Baby Gymnastics.
3rd baby:
You take your infant to the supermarket
and the dry cleaner.
______________________________________________________
Going Out:

1st baby:
The first time you leave your baby with a sitter,
you call home five times.

2nd baby:
Just before you walk out the door, you remember to leave a number where you can be reached.
3rd baby: You leave instructions for the sitter to call
only if she sees blood.
______________________________________________________
At Home:

1st baby:
You spend a good bit of every day
just gazing at the baby.

2nd baby:
You spend a bit of everyday watching to be sure your older child isn't squeezing, poking, or hitting the baby.
3rd baby:
You spend a little bit of every day
hiding from the children.

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Swallowing Coins (a favorite):

1st child:
When first child swallows a coin,
you rush the child to the hospital and demand x-rays.

2nd child:
When second child swallows a coin,
you carefully watch for the coin to pass.

3rd child:
When third child swallows a coin you deduct it from his allowance!
______________________________________________________
Pass this on to everyone you know who has children . . . or everyone who
KNOWS someone who has had children . . . (The older the mother, the funnier this is!)


GRANDCHILDREN :

God's reward for allowing your children to live

Thursday, April 19, 2007

This group is really evolving!


Get it off your chest and let it go!

by IDeserveIt on Apr. 18, 2007 at 11:25 AM

Long term goals!

by IDeserveIt on Apr. 18, 2007 at 11:23 AM

Affirmations!

by ISAGENIXmom on Apr. 10, 2007 at 12:19 PM

Daily Power Planning!

by IDeserveIt on Mar. 29, 2007 at 4:42 PM

Welcome! Introdce yourself!

by IDeserveIt on Mar. 28, 2007 at 2:56 PM

Wednesday, April 18, 2007

Amber Alert CANCELLED!!!

Colorado Amber Alert Canceled For Kaylee Jackson
Cancellation Details: The Amber Alert for Kaylee Jackson has been canceled. The child has been found safe. No further details are available at this time.

via cafemom tweety2975

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

Not a good Doctors appointment

I am bummed and scared you guys! I just found out i need to go in for another surgery. Exploratory! OH my land! NO!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Seems having female kinds of pain in this manner is NOT normal... Send good thaughts. Esp next thursday! :)

AMBER Alert!


Please Help this CafeMom find her Daughter
PLEASE HELP THIS CAFEMOM.......HER DAUGHTER IS MISSING
so my ex has taken off with my daughter. He pulled her out of school and quite his job. We have no idea when he left. Sometime last week and we have no idea where he is going. His name is Bernie and he drives a newer Red Dodge truck with Arizona Plates. Her name is Kaylee. If you see the girl in this picture PLEASE PLEASE PLEASE contact me as soon as possible. I know that this is a long shot but I figure with all the people on this thing everywhere everyday that maybe someone will see her. I am begging you please repost this and if you see her or have any idea where she may be please let me know. Thanks

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The way to duplicate this message with the pictures it to hit reply to poster then copy the entire message to the end then go home and go to post a bulletin and then paste what you copied there. Thank you to anyone that will repost this for me

Monday, April 16, 2007

Can you imagine!

These babies are made of cake frosting, but who could take a bite? THIS WOMAN IS DEFINITELY TALENTED....


Marzipan Babies
Thought you'd be as fascinated with these as I. These are made with marzipan....really unbelievable! Every detail is amazing, and they look VERY real.


Marzipan is Almond paste: a sweet paste made of ground almonds and sugar, often with egg whites or yolks, used as a layer in cakes or molded into ornamental shapes.










UNBELIEVABLE!

Friday, April 6, 2007

Learn from the past or risk repeating it...

I would say

"Remeber this!"

But how could we! So many of werent even around! Rmember your parents talking about it? No
Remeber your grandparent talking about it??? I DON'T!
A teacher ever tell me? no to that also... I n t e r e s t i n g...

I will take this real off in a few days but if you look to the right------------------------------------------------>

There is a picture of an older man...this is to what i was referring. Not what I was planning on posting today! But very enlightening just the same!

Thursday, April 5, 2007

Up and coming! Just opened last Wed night!

Sunday, April 1, 2007

If you've learned to speak fluent English, you must be a genius!

Pursue at your leisure, English lovers. Reasons why the English language is so hard to learn:

1. The bandage was wound around the wound.
2. The farm was used to produce produce.
3. The dump was so full that it had to refuse more refuse.
4. We must polish the Polish furniture.
5. He could lead if he would get the lead out.
6. The soldier decided to desert his dessert in the desert.
7. Since there is no time like the present, he thought it was time to present the present.
8. A bass was painted on the head of the bass drum.
9. When shot at, the dove dove into the bushes.
10. I did not object to the object.
11. The insurance was invalid for the invalid.
12. There was a row among the oarsmen about how to row.
13. They were too close to the door to close it.
14. The buck does funny things when the does are present.
15. A seamstress and a sewer fell down into a sewer line.
16. To help with planting, the farmer taught his sow to sow.
17. The wind was too strong to wind the sail.
18. After a number of injections my jaw got number.
19. Upon seeing the tear in the painting I shed a tear.
20. I had to subject the subject to a series of tests.
21. How can I intimate this to my most intimate friend?

There is no egg in eggplant, nor ham in hamburger; neither apple nor pine in pineapple. English muffins weren't invented in England or French fries in France (surprise!).

Sweetmeats are candies while sweetbreads, which aren't sweet, are meat. Quicksand works slowly, boxing rings are square, and a guinea pig is neither from Guinea nor is it a pig.

And why is it that writers write, but fingers don't fing, grocers don't groce and hammers don't ham?

If the plural of tooth is teeth, why isn't the plural of booth beeth? One goose two geese, so one moose, two meese? Doesn't it seem crazy, that you can make amends but not one amend. If you have a bunch of odds and ends and get rid of all but one of them, what do you call it? Is it an odd, or an end?

If teachers taught, why didn't preachers praught? If a vegetarian eats vegetables, what does a humanitarian eat? In what language do people recite at a play and play at a recital? Ship by truck and send cargo by ship?

Have noses that run and feet that smell? How can a slim chance and a fat chance be the same, while a wise man and a wise guy are opposites? You have to marvel at the unique lunacy of a language in which your house can burn up as it burns down, in which you fill in a form by filling it out, and in which, an alarm goes off by going on.

English was invented by people, not computers, and it reflects the creativity of the human race, which, of course, is not a race at all. That is why, when the stars are out, they are visible, but when the lights are out, they are invisible.

P.S. Why doesn't "Buick" rhyme with "quick"?

Thursday, March 29, 2007

Mixed message?

Today we have a migraine. By 'we' I mean the echo in my head! Lovely...

I have been really enjoying meeting new people lately! Out and about more as well as online! Check out my new button?! Yup! Cafemom! Very cool! I even started my own group last night! Hope people will join and find it useful!

Sunday, March 25, 2007

Nail in the fence

NAIL IN THE FENCE


There once was a little boy who had a bad temper. His Father gave him a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must hammer a nail into the back of the fence. The first day the boy had driven 37 nails into the fence. Over the next few weeks, as he learned to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually dwindled down.

He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to drive those nails into the fence. Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father that all the nails were gone. The father took his son by the hand and led him to the fence He said, "You have done well, my son, but look at the
holes in the fence. The fence will never be the same. When you say things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one. You can put a knife in a man and draw it out.
It won't matter how many times you say I'm sorry, the wound is still there."

Friends are very rare jewels, indeed. They make you smile and encourage you to succeed. They lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open their hearts to us."

I know it's not National Friendship Week any more but... IT SHOULD BE! Show your friends how much you care. Send this to everyone you consider a FRIEND, even if it means sending it back to the person who sent it to you. If it comes back to you, then you'll know you have a circle of friends.


Thats right. Copy and paste ;-) or use the share link/button.

Friday, March 23, 2007

Hugs Are Contagious!

I saw this wonderful man on Oprah awhile back ans received this in an email link later!



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vr3x_RRJdd4

Sunday, March 18, 2007

Words to live b y!

"Inaction breeds doubt and fear. Action breeds confidence and courage. If you want to conquer fear, do not sit home and think about it. Go out and get busy."

- Dale Carnegie


To add a bit of my own!

If you are out and about already and you still have doubt and fear?

GET OUT AND ABOUT MORE!!!!!!!!!!!!

Thursday, March 15, 2007

Irish Luck - Send it on!

Remember to send on!




Ask for it back! It DOES work.







His name was Fleming, and he was a poor Scottish farmer. One day, while trying to make a living for his family, he heard a cry for help coming from a nearby bog. He dropped his tools and ran to the bog.




There, mired to his waist in black muck, was a terrified boy, screaming and struggling to free himself. Farmer Fleming saved the lad from what could have been a slow and terrifying death.




The next day, a fancy carriage pulled up to the Scotsman's sparse surroundings An elegantly dressed nobleman stepped out and introduced himself as the father of the boy Farmer Fleming had saved.




"I want to repay you," said the nobleman. "You saved my son's life."




"No, I can't accept payment for what I did," the Scottish farmer replied waving off the offer. At that moment, the farmer's own son came to the door of the family hovel.




"Is that your son?" the nobleman asked.




"Yes," the farmer replied proudly.




"I'll make you a deal. Let me provide him with the level of education my own son will enjoy. If the lad is anything like his father, he'll no doubt grow to be a man we both will be proud of." And that he did.




Farmer Fleming's son attended the very best schools and in time, graduated from St. Mary's Hospital Medical School in London, and went on to become known throughout the world as the noted Sir Alexander Fleming, the discoverer of Penicillin.




Years afterward, the same nobleman's son who was saved from the bog was stricken with pneumonia.




What saved his life this time? Penicillin.




The name of the nobleman? Lord Randolph Churchill. His son's name?








Sir Winston Churchill.




Someone once said: What goes around comes around.








Work like you don't need the money.








Love like you've never been hurt.








Dance like nobody's watching.








Sing like nobody's listening.








Live like it's Heaven on Earth.




It's National Friendship Week. Send this to








everyone you consider A FRIEND.




Pass this on, and brighten someone's day.




AN IRISH FRIENDSHIP WISH: You had better send








this back!! Good Luck!








I hope it works...




May there always be work for your hands to do;




May your purse always hold a coin or two;




May the sun always shine on your windowpane;




May a rainbow be certain to follow each rain;




May the hand of a friend always be near you;




May God fill your heart with gladness to cheer you.




OK, this is what you have to do... Send this to all of your friends.




But - you HAVE to send this within 1 hour from when you read/open it!




Now.....Make A wish!! I hope you made your wish!








Now then, if you send to:




1 person --- your wish will be granted in 1 year








3 people --- 6 months








5 people --- 3 months








6 people --- 1 month








7 people --- 2 weeks








8 people --- 1 week








9 people --- 5 days








10 people --- 3 days








12 people --- 2 days








15 people --- 1 day








20 people --- 3 hours




If you delete this after you read it, you will have 1 year of bad luck!









But, if you send it to 2 of your friends, you will automatically have 3 years good luck!!!

Tuesday, March 13, 2007

To Be OR Not To Be

I try to teach my children to pick up after themselves. To use nice words or at least use there words!

Today mommy doesnt feel so well.

Mommy had to run to the bathroom!

...No mommy is not pregnant...

Mommy may have a stomach bug however :(

SO... My DS2 decided to poor himself a glass of milk...from the jug that is still 3/4 full...

NOW, he cant get over the gate, BUT, he can get a chair and get on the counter and down the other side!!!!!!!!!

So today mommy is trying desperately to get ALL THAT MILK out of the unfinished not exactly hardwood (Doug fir) dining room floor:(

So is self sufficiency over rated? Is it really just easier to "do it myself?" Like mom used to say?!

In the long run NO I think. But for now I think I may cry, before the day is through, over spilt milk.

Wednesday, March 7, 2007

Just aweful :( Problem: Yes This solution: NOT


Against it.

If any of you out there are my friends, I ask you out of the kindness of my heart to repost this. If you're not my friend, I ask you search for the source compassion in your soul and repost this anyway. More importantly, if you're in a position to, DO something about it.



This is about California legislation being passed to exterminate pit bulls. If it passes in California, it could be on it's way to anywhere. Someone has to try to make a difference...what if it were your pet?



It would be great if Myspace could be used for something good other than getting dates. Please pass the word along and post this...so as many people can see this as possible.








































































































































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This has to be stopped. We need to save these dogs.



Please repost this to your bulletins